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I remember attending my first funeral at 12. Back then, I sat back and watched as the adults handled things. But even so, I had loads of questions. For example, why was the body placed in a certain direction when we prayed for it?
I got my answers eventually, but a lot of young Singaporeans still don’t know why certain funeral rituals are carried out. A Chinese friend once complained that he got scolded for looking at the coffin as his grandfather’s body was placed into it.
To help prevent instances where you may potentially offend someone, here are some religious funerals customs commonly practised in Singapore, and the meanings behind them.
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You’ll often see the deceased’s relatives watching over the casket, through the wee hours of morning. Besides keeping the deceased “company”, this is also to prevent cats from jumping over the casket – especially at void decks where stray felines roam freely.
The belief is that if a pregnant, black cat jumps over a casket, it will pass on one of its 9 lives to the deceased, and “awaken” his soul – preventing him from departing peacefully.
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Taoists believe that the spirit of the deceased will return home 7 days after death. It is customary to sprinkle powder or flour on the floor and leave the deceased’s favourite dishes overnight as offerings on the 7th day. If footprints are seen the next day, this means that the deceased had visited the house.
The belief is that the deceased will be reincarnated within 49 days. If footprints don’t appear in the powder, it simply means that the deceased has already been reincarnated.
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Drive past Choa Chu Kang Cemetery and you’ll notice that the Muslim graves are all built in a particular direction – specifically, at a right angle to the direction of the Kaaba in Mecca, the holiest site in Islam.
When Muslims are buried, their faces are turned to the right, so by building the graves this way, deceased can look directly towards the Kaaba.
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When it comes to Muslim funerals, be sure to pay your respects as soon as possible as the deceased are typically buried within 24 hours. This is because delaying the burial is seen as “torturing” the deceased. Since embalming is forbidden in Islam, an early burial is also for hygiene purposes, preventing the living from being exposed to bacteria.
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At Hindu funerals, the deceased is placed on a piece of white cloth to symbolise purity. A lamp is placed by the head of the body and lit along with dhoop or agarbatti (types of incense). This is symbolic of showing light to the soul as it exits the body into a new reincarnation. The lamp has to be lit for as long as the body is in the house, hence family members have to take turns to keep watch over the body and lamp.
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After cremation, the deceased’s ashes are scattered over a body of water. Hindus believe that one’s body is made up of the 5 elements of nature – water, earth, fire, air and sky – and that one should return to the elements upon passing. It is for this reason also that Hindus practise cremation as the body is returned to the earth, fire, air, and sky by burning it in the open.
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Crows are held in high regard in Hinduism – some believe that their ancestors return in the form of crows, while others believe that crows can transport food to their ancestors. Hence, feeding crows symbolises feeding one’s ancestors.
Hindus believe that if the crows do not eat the food fed to them at funerals, it means that the deceased has some unfulfilled wish.
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Incense is widely used during worship in Catholicism and funerals are no exception. Incense grains are lit up in a censer and then swung around the casket by a priest. The smoke of burning incense symbolises that prayers of the faithful are rising to heaven. In olden days, the use of incense was also to mask bad smells.
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The recitation of the Rosary is usually held during a vigil before the funeral to pray for repose of the soul. Unlike Communion, which is open only to Catholics, anyone can participate in Rosary prayers if they wish.
In Singapore, most Catholic churches have their own Rosary groups that will help pray for the departed at funerals. These groups are usually from the deceased’s own parish, though members of the group may not necessarily know the deceased personally – everything is done out of goodwill, on a voluntary basis.
Read more about the Catholic holidays of Ash Wednesday, Good Friday and Easter here.
As funerals are solemn affairs, it’s good to be aware of certain traditions and taboos – even those outside your culture and religious group. We hope that this guide will enlighten you on some of the practices you might come across at any funerals you may attend or pass by.
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