15 Signs that you have a crush on someone
Crushes, we all have them no matter what stage of life we are in. Most of the time the reasons for having crushes are as simple as, “She’s pretty” or “He’s so nice to me”. However, some of us still have problems at identifying crushes or are in complete denial of them. Even when its so obvious to everyone around us!
Here are some definite signs you can look for to determine if you are really crushing on someone or if they are just a normal friend.
1. You start doing weird things with your hair
Ha! Ha! Ha! He's so funny, so charming. Wait, why am I touching my hair? Oh my Gosh, it's one of the signs. He'll know that I fancy him! Stop it, Stop it. Ok just flip my hair behind my shoulders and I'll stop playing with them.
2. Your Life revolves around them
I wonder what is he doing now? Is he talking about me in that tweet?
Every single thing you do is related to them. The high point of your days soon become whenever you have a conversation with him or even when you glance at him.
P.s. "Hi" or "Hello" is not a conversation.
*Pick up an apple* Oh he loves apple, maybe I should get some for him.
3. You've started stalking them online
Facebook? Twitter? Instagram? You refresh all these at an unhealthy rate.
Let's face it, who needs face to face time to get to know one person when you have the internet. You know you are going too far when see their school assignments pop out on your search.
4. You'll try to spot him in every waking moment
Is he in there? Oh my Gawd, I think I just spotted his back; My day is perfect!
Sometimes you just find yourself lurking near his usual hangouts just to have a glimpse at him and when you finally did spot him...
5. You turn religious
Please, please, please, god let me meet him / her today. I'll promise to be vegetarian for a week. Just let me see him / her today.
When it comes to your crushes, it doesn't matter if you're an atheist. You will abruptly decide that there's a higher power and you will pray and make promises to them.
6. You try your best to bump into him
When you finally give up on leaving fate to a higher power, you'll start planning "coincidental" meetings...
Trying to attend class the same timing, going to the toilet the same timing, etc.
and when you actually meet them without planning a "coincidental" meeting you'll go slightly cray cray:
7. You'll start hallucinating about him
Is this him? Is that him? Oh my gosh, he's everywhere! I need to lie down.
For some reason every stranger who has the same built starts to look like your crush.
8. You make lots of excuses to talk to him
Oh,I forgot my book can I borrow yours? Oh, I'm going to my friends house today, shall I walk with you?
You'll learn to become the king of making lousy excuses just so you can talk to them.
9. You smile too much
You see him, you smile. You talk to him, you smile. The conversation between both of you has gone cold but you are still smiling. Girl, there's a fine line between sunshine girl and just plain creepy. I have to say, you've crossed it... a mile back.
10. Your body will have annoying reactions
Some would blush
Some would have a minor "heart attack"
While others would be plain goofy.
11. You start recalling conversations & making really bad assumptions
How are you today? Oh, I'm fine. Great!, I gotta run. See you!
In your head: Oh my gosh, he even asked me how am I at the last moment when he is rushing off, he must really like me!
No matter how meaningless the conversations may seemed, you'll recall it to be better then it originally was and ended up with the conclusion of...
12. You'll start wondering alot about what would have happened
I wonder what will happen if I asked him about the prom, will he offer to go with me?
Your spare time will be spent thinking about what will happen if you did this or said that. Will your time spent together be longer or will your conversations be still as short?
13. You talk about them alot
Be it complains or praises, you'll notice that your point of conversations will somehow be linked to your crush. Soon, you'll noticed that your friends all have a similar expression...
and given the chance, some of them would even do this in front of you:
Yah, you are definitely boring them with the repetitious stories of your crush.
14. You'll start singing lots of love songs
You'll notice that all of a sudden Taylor Swift is your favorite artist.
15. Your eyes slowly turn green
Be it online or in public, you just can't help the feeling of being jealous of those whom they talked to and entertained.
Crush or be crushed?
At the end of the day, the result of having a crush on someone is unpredictable. You cannot always expect things to go according to plan. You have to be emotionally ready when you learn your crush does not reciprocate the same feelings you have for them.
When that time comes, you have to know that it's alright and it's not the end of the world. It may feel like that but it's not. You will move on, be stronger and be even more prepared for the next one.
Just keep in mind that you are going to be okay.
On the lighter note, if your crush do reciprocate that feeling then I’ll say, Go for it! I know you want to ;)